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Refusing to Sacrifice Our Son on the Altar of FCAT Insanity

By Ru'e Lam

March 23, 2007

My son falls into the category of Exceptional Student who does poorly on the FCAT.

He nearly had a breakdown from being kept in Intensives with NO electives (meaning no PE or Music, drama or Art in which he is gifted). He could not take Shop or Typing or anything else that might relieve the agony of sitting through Language Arts, Intensive Reading, Intensive Math, Math, and Science every day.

He has always needed a lot of exercise and frequent breaks from difficult subjects, in order to concentrate. He has a hearing issue. He is only 12-13 years old. I would have a hard time even as an adult, sitting through that many hours of subjects in which I did not excel.

In addition, as I saw his self esteem plummet I noticed his behaviors were beginning to be affected as he was exposed to other students in the Intensive classes who often come from a very rough environment.

Kids are 'clickish'. So my son was being ostracized from the "A-B Honor Roll crowd". He was not allowed to show his talents in drama, music or sports so no one in Middle School could see he had any. A lonely child will gravitate to the group that accepts him and these rough kids were accepting him.

Three weeks ago I stopped working (at serious financial loss to our family) and began Home Schooling. To us our son is worth any sacrifice. We refuse to offer HIM up as a sacrifice on the altar of insanity that the Public School system has become.
 

 

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